{"id":2882,"date":"2025-11-26T21:10:19","date_gmt":"2025-11-26T21:10:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/oraclerealestategroup.com\/campus-life-advisory\/?p=2882"},"modified":"2025-11-26T21:22:10","modified_gmt":"2025-11-26T21:22:10","slug":"the-5-rules-of-being-a-good-college-roommate-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/oraclerealestategroup.com\/campus-life-advisory\/blog\/the-5-rules-of-being-a-good-college-roommate-2\/","title":{"rendered":"The 5 Rules of Being a Good College Roommate"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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The foundation of good roommate behavior is respect and an adequate amount of compassion. Initially, most students are uncomfortable while adjusting to campus housing to some degree. It is considerably simpler for students to go through the adjustment period effectively if they approach the scenario calmly and act politely.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Five Rules about Roommates to Remember for Successful Co-Living:<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

1. Don\u2019t Expect your roommate to Become your Closest Friend on Day One<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Consider your roommate at college as someone you should get along well with, not as a buddy for life. Freshmen moving into shared living spaces often have unrealistic expectations of what their roommate friendship will or can accomplish. The goal is to find a compatible roommate\u2014someone you get along with who doesn\u2019t distract you from your studies but isn\u2019t terrible, either.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Start Communicating Soon<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

The sooner the relationship can start, the better. Start by planning a meet-and-greet before school to introduce yourself and start establishing roommate house rules. Do it in person if possible. This is a crucial step, even if you choose your roommate and are already close with them. Your relationship will benefit from this one on one time immeasurably.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n

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3. Discuss Timings Beforehand<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Before the semester starts, try to compare your roommate(s)\u2019 class schedules to see if you can create a workable dynamic around those hours. Your roommate may have been forced to enroll in classes that start at the terrible hour of 8:30 a.m., whereas you may have been fortunate to have classes that start at 09:00 or 11:00 a.m. (much more pleasant than high school).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Avoid Borrowing without Permission<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Even though your roommate may own the cutest clothing pieces they may not be wearing in a long time, you are not entitled to wear them without asking. Always respect their wishes and request permission first. Be mindful of the potential downside of borrowing from your roommate. If they grant you permission and you spill something on it, spend money having it cleaned by a pro. Be prepared to replace the item if that doesn\u2019t work, make sure you have the resources to do so if required.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Your relationship will benefit immensely when you take responsibility for challenges you create for your roommate. Their respect for you will go far to nurtur a great relationship.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n

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5. Discuss Study-Related Issues<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

One of you will always be celebrating the completion of your exam while the other is still struggling with the most difficult midterm ever. Before you become overwhelmed by deadlines, set some expectations today, and remember that what goes around comes around.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The Bottom Line<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

One of the simplest ways to student success and getting things going in the right direction is to think about how any action you take will affect your roommate. It\u2019s a terrific method to start raising awareness of how choices affect both individuals. This will reduce the likelihood that you, as a student, would act rudely just because you forgot to consider your roommate.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n

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