{"id":2282,"date":"2025-02-06T22:02:42","date_gmt":"2025-02-06T22:02:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/oraclerealestategroup.com\/campus-life-advisory\/stage\/?p=2282"},"modified":"2025-06-17T20:35:38","modified_gmt":"2025-06-17T20:35:38","slug":"the-5-rules-of-being-a-good-college-roommate","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/oraclerealestategroup.com\/campus-life-advisory\/blog\/the-5-rules-of-being-a-good-college-roommate\/","title":{"rendered":"The 5 Rules of Being a Good College Roommate"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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The foundation of good roommate behavior is respect and an adequate amount of compassion. Initially, everyone is typically uncomfortable with campus housing<\/strong>. It is considerably simpler for students to go through the adjustment period effectively if they approach the scenario calmly and act politely.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Five Rules about Roommates to Remember for Successful Co-Living:<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n
1.    Don’t Expect them to Become your Closest Friend on Day One<\/strong><\/h5>\n\n\n\n

Consider your roommate at college as someone you should get well with, not as a buddy for life. Freshmen moving in have unrealistic expectations of what their roommate friendship will or can accomplish. The goal is to find a decent roommate\u2014someone you get along with who doesn’t distract you from your studies but isn’t terrible, either.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n

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2.    Start Communicating Soon<\/strong><\/h5>\n\n\n\n

The sooner the relationship can start, the better. Plan a meet-and-greet before school to introduce yourself and start establishing limits. Do it in person if possible. This is a crucial step, even if you choose your roommate and are already close with them. Your relationship will benefit from this one on one time immeasurably.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3.    Discuss Timings Beforehand<\/strong><\/h5>\n\n\n\n

Before the semester starts, try to compare your roommate(s)’ class schedules to see if you can create a workable dynamic around those hours. Your roommate may have been forced to enroll in classes that start at the terrible hour of 8:30 a.m., whereas you may have been fortunate to have classes that start at 09:00 or 11:00 a.m. (much more pleasant than high school).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4.    Avoid Borrowing without Permission<\/strong><\/h5>\n\n\n\n

Even though your roommate may own the cutest clothing pieces they may not be wearing in a long time, you are not entitled to wear them without asking. Always respect their wishes and request permission first. If they grant you permission and you spill something on it, spend money having it cleaned by a pro. Replace the item if that doesn’t work. Your relationship will benefit immensely when you take responsibility for challenges you create for your roommate.  Their respect for you will go far to foster a great relationship.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n

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5.    Discuss Study-Related Issues<\/strong><\/h5>\n\n\n\n

One of you will always be celebrating the completion of your exam while the other is still struggling with the most difficult midterm ever. Before you become overwhelmed by deadlines, set some expectations today, and remember that what goes around comes around.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The Bottom Line  <\/strong>  <\/h4>\n\n\n\n

One of the simplest ways of student success<\/strong><\/a> and get things going in the right direction is to think about how any action you take will affect your roommate. It’s a terrific method to start raising awareness of how choices affect both individuals. This will reduce the likelihood that you, as a student, would act rudely just because you forgot to consider your roommate.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n

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